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Welcome to the Commission Queen podcast.
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Commission Queen is for women real estate agents that are craving success and want
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to do things differently.
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We talk all things manifesting, money, and of course, real estate.
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I'm your host, Becca Marie, and just like you, I'm a real estate agent.
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I went from struggling to get clients to making over six figures consistently while
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working 15 hours or less each week.
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And now I coach women like you on how to do the same.
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Listen for real life examples and tips in every episode on how to massively
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increase your income and find your freedom with ease.
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You're here because you're ready to change your life, your business and your financial status.
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So let's do it.
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hello queens welcome back to the manifesting in real estate podcast i am doing this
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podcast in chicago my husband has an annual year in banquet his company in chicago
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and this year he was inducted into the company's hall of fame so it was a big
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exciting thing big night for him and the company put us in this huge suite so i am
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just taking advantage i'm in this huge suite
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and i feel like it's the perfect place to be doing the podcast and i'm also working
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on a new training for you i will be announcing that soon of where you can get that
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training so just know something exciting is coming so i've been thinking a lot
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about manifesting over the last month or so you know i'm always thinking about it
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this is the manifesting in real estate podcast you know i love manifesting and
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continuously learning about it and living it
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and teaching you about it and one thing really struck me over the last month i
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shared with you in my new year's episode that last year was a really good year for
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me it was wonderful it just wasn't overly exciting because i wasn't going for any
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really big goals or really big dreams i was soaking in all of the really big goals
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and dreams that i
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had manifested.
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And so it was a great year for that.
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And now I was realizing with these new big dreams and big goals that I've written
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for myself,
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I love them because it's not just about getting there.
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And I want this to be like
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as least cliche as possible but i know it's a common thing anyways but it really is
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about the journey and who you are becoming on the journey to that goal to that
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dream and that's the experience that's the part that when you can start to enjoy
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that
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Life is so good.
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And life is really, really exciting, even just going after those big goals and big dreams.
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And when you have these big things,
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big desires that you're going after,
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it requires a little more manifestation on your part.
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And of course, it requires more action on your part, too.
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And in case you're new here or you're just getting started with manifesting,
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what is manifesting?
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Manifesting is creating your reality through your habitual thoughts,
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beliefs,
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energy,
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and your actions.
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So really, we are all manifesting all of the time.
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We are all manifesting 100% of the time.
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But are we manifesting intentionally?
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That's the question.
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And that's where we want to be.
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We want to be where we are manifesting intentionally,
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getting clear on where we want to go,
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what your desires are,
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those big goals and dreams,
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and start creating a life towards those things.
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Because if it's not intentional,
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we are ending up who knows where,
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wherever our programming,
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our past beliefs,
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our limiting beliefs are going to take us.
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And how do we overcome this programming?
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How do we overcome those limiting beliefs so we are not just led down that limiting path?
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How do we start being really intentional to go after and manifest the dream's desires?
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We do it by thinking better thoughts.
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More intentional thoughts.
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Rewiring those beliefs by choosing the beliefs that we want to instill.
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Changing the energy.
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Changing what we believe is possible for us.
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these different things we can call them manifesting techniques these different
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manifesting techniques are something that we have to be really diligent about we
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continuously do them because that's how it's going to shape and create the reality
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that we want
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You can learn about them.
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You can feel like you know exactly what it is or how to do it.
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You can try them a couple of times.
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You can try them several times.
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But if it's not something you're doing consistently, it's not going to work the same.
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because i wasn't going after anything really big this last year i wasn't doing my
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usual consistent manifesting techniques manifesting routines okay totally honest i
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really wasn't because there was nothing that i was going after that i felt like i
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needed to do those consistently especially because i have been intentionally
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manifesting for
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20 years,
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I mean,
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forever,
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I have been manifesting and doing these different things to keep my headspace and
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to keep my thoughts and my energy and everything aligned and in the right place for manifesting.
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So,
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you know,
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doing all of these things,
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plus I'm a teacher of these things,
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thinking like,
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I got it,
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you know,
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I already know it.
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And I don't need to do it all the time.
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Kind of like, you know, thinking it's a set it and forget it.
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And sometimes it is.
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There's a lot of things that are,
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once you get them really ingrained in you,
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yes,
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there are things that will start to manifest for you just because your beliefs are
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already set in that really good place.
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But there are still always going to be things that pop up.
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things that come back, some programming or some old beliefs that come back.
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So when I started writing out these new big dreams that I have,
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I started to feel that resistance again.
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I started to feel those limiting beliefs coming back.
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And it shocked me a little bit because there were some limiting beliefs I thought
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that I conquered forever ago.
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And it just goes to show I have to be diligent in those manifesting techniques and
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those routines and things
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that i do on a regular basis to keep my mind my energy right think about it like
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this it is winter time which is sick season you know the sickness season which
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means it's really important to strengthen your immune system and wash your hands
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We all know that.
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We all learned that.
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And we all know the science behind it and everything.
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But what if we were treating,
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washing our hands to keep us from sickness,
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like we were treating manifesting to help us get to our desires?
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Sometimes we think, well, we know it.
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We know that we should be thinking better thoughts.
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We know that we should be having better energy around things.
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We know that we should be diligent on visioning and journaling about what we want
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to see and our desires.
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But because we know it, that should be good enough.
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So now think about that, how it would be like washing your hands.
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Yeah,
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well,
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we know that it's good to wash your hands and we know that it's good to keep your
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immune system right and to have these vitamins and eat well and everything.
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We know it, so that should be good enough.
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That will help me.
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Does that make any sense?
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Not at all.
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Just because we know it,
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just because we know the science,
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it does not mean that it is going to help us from getting sick.
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We actually have to do the things in order to help keep us healthy.
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Now apply that to manifesting.
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Just because you learned about manifesting,
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just because you've done it a couple of times in the past,
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it doesn't mean it's going to help you get to your next goal.
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It doesn't mean it's going to help you get to that life that you desire.
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It's something that we have to do regularly.
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It's something that we have to put into our routine.
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Think about and be really intentional about.
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And there will be different seasons.
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So right now, this is the sixth season.
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We want to be extremely diligent about washing our hands and taking care of our
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immune system and doing all of the things to strengthen our immune system so we
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stay healthy.
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And then there are times where sickness is not quite as prevalent and we still have
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our set routine of washing our hands after everything,
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but maybe we can be a little less diligent on keeping our immune system right.
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Right now I'm going to be traveling week on,
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week off,
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week on,
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week off for the next month and a half.
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Winter time plus traveling with a bunch of people plus lack of sleep maybe from jet
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lag and all of that.
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You better believe I am going above and beyond to keep myself healthy.
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I'm taking my regular supplements and vitamins that I usually do,
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but then I'm also adding in some new things.
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Like I'm taking this vitamin C, liposomal vitamin C with propolis.
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This is not something I take in the summer when I'm not traveling at all because I
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feel like I don't really need to.
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I'm good.
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But when I'm in a season where there could be other factors that I need to
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strengthen for,
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I'm going to take it.
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Same thing with manifesting.
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There are going to be different seasons where maybe you don't have to be having all
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of the additional manifesting techniques,
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but you still want to keep your routine regular manifesting activities in play.
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And then there are seasons where you are going after something big or there's
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something you really want to manifest,
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something that is more urgent or a current goal.
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Then you're going to supplement with even more of those manifesting techniques.
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And I know that I'm being a little bit vague by just saying manifesting techniques
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because in this podcast,
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in my trainings,
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there's so many things I talk about of what those things can be and should be for you.
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So you can go back and find those other episodes too.
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But to give you an idea,
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speaking from my own current experience,
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instead of just journaling when I feel like it,
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I started adding journaling back in to my regular morning routine.
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And that's another thing, having a regular morning routine.
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Last year, I had a routine, but it wasn't entirely intentional.
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And this year,
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I am so intentional with my morning routine of the things I want to do to get my energy,
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my mind,
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my beliefs,
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and my actions right.
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Starting out the day with all of the things that are going to be important in my
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success in reaching my next goals.
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I've been really watching my thoughts and what I'm saying,
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noticing what thoughts come through and immediately assessing,
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is this something I want to be thinking?
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Does it help me towards my goal or is it not?
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And then tweaking that as I can and having backup affirmations,
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having affirmations and beliefs that I want to instill and rewire my mind with.
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having those at the ready so whenever I have something that is negative or what I
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don't really want to be thinking,
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I can come in immediately and start saying those affirmations for myself.
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I've been watching what I'm listening to, what I'm watching.
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Does this make me feel good?
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Is this the best use of my time?
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Does it help me grow?
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Does it also help me think bigger?
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I've been listening a lot to Enya,
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of course my favorite,
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and my Money Manifesting music playlist.
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I started prioritizing movement.
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Last year, I feel like I did not move as much as I wanted to.
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And that was very symbolic as well.
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It felt like it was a little stagnant.
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So I am prioritizing movement this year.
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in a way to help my body, of course, but also that changes your energy instantly.
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When you start to move within five minutes,
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probably less,
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but within five minutes,
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you feel a significant shift and that energy helps to inspire me so that I can do
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more and have the excitement for more.
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I started reading more books that align with my purpose.
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I'm doing a lot more visualization and seeking out images and experience and things
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that are going to inspire me.
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to dream bigger so you see with this nothing on this list is something that's
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totally different these are all pretty basic things but that's where the trap can
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be sometimes because we think oh well we know that and it's not a big deal and
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sometimes I do that and it should work anyways or it doesn't work
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it does work but you do have to do the reps you do have to continuously do the work
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if you want to create an intentional life you have to take those intentional steps
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it does work and i promise you it is so worth it and the beautiful part is it's not
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just about what you are going to manifest
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Start to enjoy the journey.
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Start to enjoy who you're becoming in the very now.
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