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Hello, hello, Queens, welcome back to another episode. Today's episode is honestly for me, but I'm hoping that you will get some benefits out of it as well. I want to talk about leaky energy, like where are you spending your energy, your energy is your point of attraction, always. So your energy is helping you in your manifestations for your desires. It's helping you in the flow and the ease of work or not easy and flowy. And your energy is part of how you experience your relationships, how people are experiencing you what's going on with your health, with your fitness, with business income desires, everything is from your energy, your energy plays a massive, massive role in all of these things, every single area of your life. So where are you spending your energy? How are you spending your energy, and are there areas in your life where you're letting energy go to things that you may not want your energy to be going to, that may be stealing from where you want to put your energy. Think of it like, you know, let's say you're gardening, and you have a bucket and you have to water all of this huge garden that you just put in and you grab this bucket, you fill it up with water, and you have a ways to walk from where you fill up the water to the garden. And your bucket has minor holes, you didn't see the holes, you thought that it was fine. But it has these minor holes, and you're walking and all of this water is coming out of the bucket. And by the time you get there, it's like you actually only have half of a bucket full of water left, which means it's going to take you a lot longer double the time to complete watering this entire garden because of these minor holes. Yes, you still are able to have water in the bucket is still holding some water. But there's still these micro holes that are releasing so much water where it's still taking you a longer time, and more work and wasting that water. Okay, so the water is your energy. And the bucket in this analogy is how you are containing your energy or using your energy. And the garden, of course is your desires, what you're wanting to manifest your business, your finances, your relationships, your body, all of these things. Is this garden that you have to water you have to have energy for these things. And how are you using that energy? And are there places in your life where there could be wasted energy? Where there are these energy leaks? I'm gonna give you an example real life right now. Example. And this is why I'm saying this episode is largely for me, but I wanted to share it because I know it will benefit you as well. Right now I have been using two phones since I think like March. And the reason I've had two phones is because my new phone started to like glitch out and just completely froze. So I wasn't able to do anything. So I switched out the SIM card and put it in my old phone that I had, thankfully, then my new phone came on frozen, thankfully. And there are still some apps on that phone that are only on that phone and not on my old phone. So I've been using both phones because my old phone is so old that it's not letting me download apps. So I've been having to use both phones for the last like three four months. Which is crazy because it's not that big of a thing and it doesn't seem like that big of a deal. But this is just one example of those micro holes in my bucket, it's this place where my energy is going to leak into, it's not that big of a deal, it doesn't seem that big of a deal. I don't notice it that much. But it's something that is taking my energy away from other things that I can be putting my energy towards. And even though it doesn't seem like that big of a deal, it still feels a little bit messy, right? And subconsciously, it feels like I'm a little bit scattered, because I have these two phones. Another example of leaky energy is things that you should do, meaning things that you keep saying, oh, yeah, I should do that. Oh, yeah, I should do that. Like things that have been on your to do list for way too long. And it's maybe things that are not urgent, but they would improve your life, and they would get off of your to do list so that it can free up more space and more energy for you to focus on what you want to create. So I realized I had a bunch of things on my to do list, not necessarily like an actual to do list. But just things that were running in my head of I should do this sometime. You know, it's like an app on your phone, or like all the little tabs in your, in your I was gonna say in your brain, in your computer. And when all of those things are running at once. It's that leaky energy, it's not able to focus on the big things, because there's so many tabs, so many apps running in the background. And honestly, sometimes these things would be better to just get down on a to do list. Because sometimes I'm like, Oh, they're not really to do list worthy. And I just keep them running in my head. And everyone's like, Oh, yeah, yeah, don't forget that I have to do whatever. So one of these things was, we had a garage door that broke. And we have had that on our list of things to fix for so long. And it has nothing to do with the money. It literally is just like I don't know, like, I don't know what we were waiting for. But it was an absolute energy week. And I finally had one day, this last week where I just did everything I called the people I needed to call, I scheduled the appointments I needed to schedule, I ordered the things that I needed to order, just whatever I needed to do to get those micro holes sealed up in my bucket so that I could have more energy more focused on the things that really mattered. For you. This might not even be like actual things that you have to do. But it could be things that you're avoiding. Maybe you are avoiding looking at your finances, or avoiding talking or forgiving a person or you're procrastinating with things that you have to do in your business or in your finances or in your relationship. Sometimes this leaky energy is so easy to clear up. Actually, most of the time it is it's just that we don't recognize how much that is taking a toll and how much it does affect our day to day lives. It affects the way that we manifest. And you will be so shocked at what a difference it makes. When you seal a couple of these holes up when you are no longer avoiding these things are no longer procrastinating in these things, and you just do them. And you're like, Okay, wow, that took me so many months to just finally do it. And it was easy. I feel so much better and things are like happening faster. One of the first steps in it manifesting that I will often give a client is clear space, like go and declutter whatever spaces that you have. Because a lot of times that clutter is like holding on to a certain energy. And that is a part of your leaky energy. So even if you're having a cluttered workspace or a cluttered car or whatever, just do some clearing, do some cleaning, make space, and it feels so so good. This last weekend, I this is another thing I was like okay, this is part of my leaky energy. We moved into our house full time, a couple of months ago and when we moved in, I just like threw all the food and stuff in the pantry. And ever since I've just been doing that same thing just like fitting the food in wherever it fits on shelves and there's no rhyme or reason to anything and it just like a mess and so every time I was opening it up, it was just giving me like a little bit of anxiety because it was so Oh crazy. And you know, we could never find anything. And so I'm like buying multiples of things because I don't know what I have. And, yes, leaky energy with my kitchen pantry. Okay, so I took a few hours, and I organized everything. So it does have a very specific place for everything. And it looks beautiful, it feels so nice every time I open up the door to the pantry. Now I'm like, Oh, I love it. It was minor, but these things all add up. And having them fixed sealing up those leaky holes, is making such a difference in my energy in the way that I'm receiving. And things are happening faster and faster. I can tell like I'm receiving checks in the mail, I'm receiving new, amazing, ideal clients. And it just feels so good to not have leaky energy going out everywhere and being able to put energy into what I want. So today sit down and write out where you think you have those open running tabs. Where do you have those micro holes in your bucket? That is leaking your energy, write them all down, and then commit to this week, clearing them up, like sealing all of those up, so that you have the energy to focus and receive more. Now you may be wondering, okay, I get this, I am going to seal up all of those holes. But what can I do to fill my bucket? What can I do to get more energy into my life into my business into my relationships. First, know that you are the energy, you have all the resources within you to fill up that bucket that you have the energy you create the energy you produce the energy. And even though sometimes you don't feel like you do, and that it is external, it is all internal, within you all within your control. But let's say you're going through a low energy period, a difficult time struggles, whatever that's making it so that you feel like it's super hard to get the energy. Here are a few of my recommendations for creating that energy into your life for filling up that bucket. One would be doing more of what you enjoy. Always, always always, this is what I always go to because it's so funny even though people enjoy certain things, they don't realize that they are avoiding that or that they haven't done those things in a long time. So just getting back to who you are, what you really, really enjoy. And whether that be spending time with a pet or a family member, or doing a hobby that you love. Getting back to what you enjoy reminds you of the essence of you, who you are and what you can create. Take time for those things and make that a regular practice in your daily in your weekly, making sure that you're doing something every day that you enjoy that will continuously fill up that energy. The next would be sitting quiet for a while meditating. This practice is something else that we often avoid. And then when we do it, it is mind blowing. Like, okay, I needed that so, so badly just to kind of reconnect with yourself with God, quieting your mind of all of the other crazy things that are going on and reconnecting with the source. Next, make sure that movement is a part of your routine that it is in something that you do daily, because this will affect your energy so much on an energetic spiritual way. And also, of course, in a physical body way movement is so good for us and it moves that energy. It doesn't have to be anything like super intense, super crazy. Even just walking is moving and shifting that energy shifting that state where you currently are and helping you get closer to where you want to be in attracting. Lastly, have something maybe daily. I mean, that can be a little overwhelming to think about daily, but at least a weekly practice of looking into your desires, visualizing your desires, writing them down. You know I always share about my wake up and manifest journal. This is something that I do on a weekly basis. And it just keeps me thinking about where I want to go thinking about what I'm wanting to manifest And what those desires are, which keeps the fire the energy alive in my passions, like remembering why I'm doing these things, what I want to do what I want to accomplish. And it's been said over and over and over again that whatever your goals are, whatever your desires are, are so much more likely to be accomplished to happen when you write them down. So having a regular practice of going through that, or even if it's like going through a Pinterest board, and remembering all of the things that you want to create in your life, or looking at that vision board that you have, and just knowing too, that your energy will constantly shift, you will have the roller coasters of energy, because you're human. And hello, it's totally okay to have downtime, right? And plus, there's always seasons in our life, you may be going through a season of winter and know that spring and summer are always coming. Those seasons will change the timing of is it gonna be a while in this season? Is it going to be short? This is all normal, you are human. And these tools will help you get that energy faster than if you were just to stay and literally do nothing. Are you required to do something? Absolutely not. Will it help you? Will it serve you to do these different things and seal up these leaky holes and to fill your bucket in this way for more energy? Yes, absolutely. And that is what this is all about. And I want to know how you are going to implement this into your life this week. Share with me on Instagram at commission Queen let me know what you're going to be doing to seal up those micro holes in your bucket. 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