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Welcome to the Commission Queen podcast. Commission queen is for women, real estate agents that are craving success and want to do things differently. We talk all things manifesting money, and of course, real estate. I'm your host, Bekkah, Marie. And just like you, I'm a real estate agent, I went from struggling to get clients to making over six figures consistently, while working 15 hours or less each week. And now I coach women like you on how to do the same. Listen for real life examples and tips in every episode on how to massively increase your income and find your freedom with ease. You're here because you're ready to change your life, your business and your financial status. So let's do it.
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Today, I wanted to pop on with a quick podcast about how we're programmed and the idea that when things get good, they don't have to get back out again. So I mentioned this the other day on my Instagram, and it resonated with a lot of people. Just the idea that when things are going really well in our lives, we're programmed to think that we have to start worrying about the bad that's coming, we have to start worrying about some sort of impending doom. And what's so interesting about that, of course, once we learn about energy, and everything's energy, and we influence energy, how we feel is really what makes up the frequency of what we attract, when we're thinking about the impending doom. Or we're worried about the bad things that are coming. And we're wondering, oh, no, this is so good, how is it going to get bad, and I don't want it to get bad, and you keep thinking about those things. You're actually attracting those bad things. I'm all about, you know, taking responsibility, that living we are living at cause and we are in control of our lives, which means we create our lives and recreate our circumstances. And even in situations where you're like, I did not create that bad thing that happened to me. Take back your power, by taking responsibility no matter what and saying, how could I have influenced that for the better with my energy, that's a different podcast. But anyways, the idea that when things are going really well, we're programmed to start to think negatively and worry about the bad things that are coming. And it's everywhere in our society. It's in our movies, it's in the TV shows, we watch the books we read. And it's in society in general, big things that run off of the collective energy and people, you know, real estate and the stock market. So real estate in the stock market for almost 10 years now have been going up heavily, like all the time has been going up, up up. And of course, you in the real estate industry, you know this, and people constantly talk about, well, it has to correct, it has to correct itself. It can't be this good. It can't keep getting better. It has to correct. And isn't that interesting? Because yes, things happen. And there are some corrections. But what if we looked at that in an energy perspective? So if all things are energy, we influence matter with our energy. It's like, really, that collective thought is influencing it. So when these crazy shifts in the market happened, the corrections in the market happen. It's really like us, you know, it's the collective that is thinking that and creating it, whatever we were to start thinking, actually, the better it gets, the better it gets. It gets to keep getting better. And it's really hard to shift that on a massive level. That's my goal for everything that I do is to help raise the level of consciousness to a higher level. However, we are always in charge of ourselves. We are always most in control of ourselves and our circumstances. So start with yourself. Because you actually do get to create your life your reality, and you're in charge. So for you make it true for you make it true that it gets to get better and better. The better it gets, the better it gets. And it doesn't have to be that if something good happens in your life or if your life has been really good for a long time, it doesn't have to be that something negative or bad has to happen. And in the same way, of course life, things happen. It just has to be that you don't give whatever circumstances that happen. A negative meaning you have to be in charge of the meaning that you give situations or circumstance stances that happen to you. So even if something bad happens,
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you're thinking, how does this work for my greater good. And this even though this happened, it doesn't ruin the rest of the stuff that I have been really enjoying in my life. And staying grateful staying and gratitude for the things that really you love in your life. And the more you focus on those things, the more you focus on the gratitude. And the more you take responsibility for your feelings, your vibe, the better your life gets. Always. That's the rule. And you get to make the rules in your life. So for you make it true, make that your reality. The better it gets, the better it gets. And you'll notice it still happens. Our brains are wired to it's that ego, right? Our brains are wired to say, okay, am I in danger? What's the bad thing that's happening? And it's your job to say, It's okay, I'm safe. Thank you brain ego for protecting me, I am safe. And I know that things get to keep getting better. So just really being intentional with your thoughts, and how you give meaning to things and your energy. So things are going awesome in your business, especially this happens with realtors all the time. Because our business can tend to be like a feast or famine type thing where you have really amazing months. And then you expect well, the next couple of months aren't going to be that good because I had amazing months. So what if you shifted that thought? What if for you, you're set apart from all agents, what if for you, the better months you have, the next month is going to be better. And the month after that gets better and better and better. And it keeps going up or whatever you want it to be. If you just want a consistent income every single month, if you just want a certain amount, be and be intentional with that and choose what that is because you get to choose you get to make the rules. So for you, it doesn't have to be true. We talk about this. I mean, the real estate industry talks about this as if it it's true for everybody that Oh yeah, you had a good month. So the couple of months after that aren't going to be so good. I mean, my office talks about this all the time, I hear about in you know big seminars, the talk about real estate, that this is how they talk. And so it's just separating yourself from that identity that doesn't have to be yours. Just because you're a realtor doesn't mean that you have to have that inconsistent income for you, it can be true that you have consistent income or that your income grows every single month or every single single quarter. So choose your rules. I mean, like make your own rules, because that is the only thing that is going to truly serve you. We run off the rules of what we grew up with, right? Most often, it's from our family from our upbringing, or school or society or jobs. We're just kind of running with what those people in our circles told us. And we're going on autopilot, we're not really thinking about how does that serve me? So when you're thinking a thought, ask yourself, does this serve me? Instead of just thinking it and saying, Oh, yep, that's the truth. That's, you know, that's what I believe. Because a lot of times you don't even question those thoughts that run through your head, you take them as truth. And that's not just you. That's everybody. And it's important to become aware of those thoughts. So as a thought floats by ask yourself, does this serve me? Do I really believe this? Is this true? In every single instance? So even if you feel like yeah, that is true, or that yeah, that that is how it works for me and I've never experienced another way. Then think about, is that true for everybody? Is that true for every single realtor?
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Most likely you can And think of a few examples where that isn't true. So think about that. Okay, that wasn't, that's not true for them. So yeah, it's possible. And it doesn't have to be true for me, I can choose a new reality, I can choose a new belief, when you're watching movies or reading books or whatever, and things are going really good. And you start to say, oh, what's gonna happen? What's the bad thing that's gonna happen? Think about this podcast, think about this idea, and laugh about it. So get into the habit of laughing about that thought. So when it comes up in your own life, when things are going amazing in your own life, and things are going awesome in your business, and that thought comes up. Remember, it's just the meaning you give it so laugh at that thought, laugh at it, and just say, Oh, that's so silly. Thankfully for me that isn't true. The better it gets, the better it gets. Thank you so much for joining me today. If you love this episode, hit that subscribe button and share a review. I so appreciate every one of you. If you're not already following me on social media, you can find me at commission clean and go to commission clean.com To browse products and get more free content
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